The Relationship Equation Relationship Circle. The Importance of Reciprocal Interaction in Functional Relationships, Role of Context the “Happinewness” Key.

摘要

Truly opposite is defined by identity of units with complementary anatomy or structure to form a pair,e.g.male and female.Complementary or corresponding structure or form permits reciprocal function of these units or“opposites”.Focus on“Identity”or“function”determines one’s view as to whether these units are“opposites”or“complementary”.“Identity”is unique&exclusive,whereas,function requires inclusivity,specificity&reciprocal interaction,contributed to by both units to form a dynamic partnership or pair.Contextual interaction matters as it permits an inclusive view.Inclusion&awareness of surroundings that impact on relationships and/or personal interaction is represented here by a surrounding circle or sense of purpose and represents the extension of immediate context involving both units in a paired relationship of structural complementary units within their encompassing surroundings or contextual field.Contextual reference is the ethical key to understanding situations&circumstance so serves as the key to ethics,morality&relationships.The Relationship Equation,E=1=m.c-1,provides a simple model of understanding usually viewed as complex relationships.It offers an approach to solving identity issues by viewing these as complementary and functional rather than as opposites.In place of identity as the focus it introduces context and reciprocal interaction of complementary units of a pair.Identity as part of a whole transfers the focus from self to other or both and to an awareness of higher purpose in the Oneness of function of Creation as(m.c-1)=E=1.Environmental influence is taken into account by viewing the Eco-social environment or Eco-society as important.Impact of environment on one or other unit in a pair or on both&vice versa affects relationships.Resilience&adaptation to environmental change leads to evolution when the pair thrives better in this new Eco-social environment.Being part of a functional whole,as a functional unit or as a functioning pair,adds purpose and reason for the Creation,all of Creation,including self,as one is included in all!Application of the Relationship Equation is relevant to health&wellbeing,parenting,biology,law&health law,political science,society&evolution.It is also valuable when utilized as a resolution tool as it offers functional outcomes and sense of purpose on the basis of objectivity,trust and truth to overcome conflict arising from a highly sensitized identity-oriented focus.Contextual&reciprocal units in functional pairs replace self as the basic functional principle of the whole of existence.Application of this understanding has preventive as well as therapeutic relevance.It may be used as a guide in upbringing,parenting and child care as well as conflict resolution in personal,social&political scenarios locally,nationally,internationally,globally&universally.It is the“happinewness”key.