恋爱资源及其对等性与恋爱质量的关系

摘要

目的：探讨恋人之间的恋爱资源及双方资源对等性对双方恋爱质量的影响。方法：选取全国5个省份和直辖市的15～29岁之间正处在恋爱状态的恋人203对，采用个体恋爱资源评定表（EFLRI）和恋爱主观感受量表（RPUS）来探索资源对等性与恋爱质量的关系。EFLRI 用来量化个体的12个恋爱资源（个体的相貌、身材、性健康、身体健康、性格、心理健康、责任感、能力、专业／职业、学历、收入和家庭背景），分为自评和他评。结果：恋人间自评的责任感及心理健康的差值均与男性和女性报告的 RPUS 总分呈负相关（r ＝－0.20～－0.33，均 P ＜0.05），收入及家庭背景的差值均与双方报告的 RPUS 总分呈正相关（r ＝0.14～0.25，均 P0.05）；恋人间他评的性健康及责任感的差值均与双方报告的 RPUS 总分呈负相关（r ＝－0.25～－0.38，均 P ＜0.01），职业及家庭背景的差值与男性报告的 RPUS 总分呈正相关（r ＝0.20、0.18，均 P0.05）。男性恋爱资源中的责任感、性健康、学历和女性恋爱资源中的相貌、性格、能力对男性报告的 RPUS 总分有正向预测作用（β＝0.14－0.34）；男性资源中的责任感、性格、相貌、健康、能力和女性资源中的健康、学历对女性报告的 RPUS 总分有正向预测作用（β＝0.14～0.27）。结论：恋人间责任感资源的对等性对恋爱质量有着积极的作用，家庭背景资源的对等性对恋爱质量有消极作用。%Objectives:To explore the effects of love resources and the lovers'resources equivalence on their romantic relationship quality.Methods:A sample of 203 pairs of lovers from 5 provinces and municipalities were selected(aged from 15 to 29).They were assessed with the Evaluation Form of Love Resources for Individual(EFL-RI)and the Scale of Relationship Perception Index for Unmarried People(RPUS)for the evaluation of the relation-ship between the love resource equivalence and the romantic relationship quality.The EFLRI was used to quantify the 12 individual love resources (the appearance of individual,stature,sexual health,health,personality,mental health,sense of responsibility,capacity,professional/occupation,education background,earning and family back-ground).The results included self-evaluation and peer-evaluation.Results:Self-assessment of responsibility between lovers and D-value of mental health were negatively correlated with the reported RPUS scores of both sides (r =-0.20 --0.33,Ps <0.05).The D-values of earning and family background were positively correlated with the re-ported RPUS scores of both sides (r =0.14 -0.25,Ps <0.05).Lovers'peer-evaluation of sexual health scores and the D-values of responsibility were negatively correlated with the reported RPUS scores of both sides (r =-0.25 --0.38,Ps <0.01.The D-values of professional/occupation and family background were positively correlated with the reported RPUS scores of males (r =0.20,0.18,Ps <0.05).Love resources(responsibility,sexual health,educa-tion background of males;appearance,personality,capacity of females )had positive predictability to males'repor-ted RPUS scores (β=0.14 -0.34),love resources(responsibility,appearance,personality,capacity,health of males and health,education background of females )had positive predictability to females'reported RPUS scores (β=0.14 -0.27).Conclusion:It suggests that the equivalence of responsibility resource has a positive influence for the quality of love relationship.The equivalence of family background resource has a negative effect for the quality of love relationship.